So, I have now found my dress and it is red! This is the dress I will be wearing to the wedding ceremony. I saw it on the Maggie Sottero website and found a wedding store in the US who had an online store to buy the dress from Maggie Sottero. Fortunately I had paid for the dress in full before the "financial crisis" occured and the Aussie dollar went way south.
The dress is very flattering and definitely suits me better than a white dress. I love how it is a corset back to the dress as this helps "pull" my stomach into place and actually makes me look like I have a flat stomach. I also really like the gold lacing on the bottom of the dress, as it adds a glamour to the dress. I definitely felt wonderful when I tried on the dress. I suppose our wedding theme will be based around the dress, even though I wanted red and gold to feature in the wedding anyway.